Unwanted Pregnancy And Guys Reactions To It



The word pregnancy is an ideal and fortunate thing when it comes to parental livelihood.
but in another scenario,people do see it as a burden and cause in which they don't accept it wholeheartedly.
what kind of people am i referring to here?......i mean starter’s, like an average hustling Naija boy which can in most cases causes
more swerves to his life cos it gears him into adjusting to a lifelong race
requiring commitment, responsibility, diligence, and a general
reorganization of his live
Now, he can promise you heaven on earth,but when it comes to pregnancy, he leaves you because to him, he tags it   TIE DOWN....

 These are the things they mostly do and/or react when it comes or sounds I AM PREGNANT.......
1.They deny it vehemently
The first reaction is denying the fact that he impregnated her. he will deny it vehemently when he knows he can’t take responsibility or when the lady in question was just on a
“chop and clean mouth” parole and she’s not worth taking home. *You
know that awkward moment when you carelessly impregnate the lady
you put on chop and clean mouth parol. Lolzzzzz
2. They Persuade Her To Go For An Abortion
This is the second idea that flops his mind after agreeing to disagree. Those who don’t have good financial standing or capability will force her into committing an abortion. They
are unnecessary being nice and caring during those times. They will talk
calmly about their unemployment, the weight of their bank account, and
the marriage plans they have for her in the future... lies.. They are
only trying to save themselves from shiiiit and disgrace..
3. They Blame Her For Being Careless
Many will blame their girlfriends for being careless by not using
pregnancy preventive drugs prior to/aftermath of Sex.. they would ask the girl questions like...Why did you betray me, Why didn't you protect yourself even if i could not, Why are you this careless and lazy to have been impregnated etc..
4. They Act Like Pregnancy Is New To Them
Even though they know they are responsible for the pregnancy, you will
see them opening their mouths in amazement just as GEJ did the
moment Buhari was announced the winner. as if they were not born out of pregnancy.
5. They Broadcast It To Their Friends
They will table the matter to their friends calling her names, spreading
rumors and some more craziness. You go hear things like “this babe just
wan push dis belle for me sha, me wey I never ready to be person papa”
I don’t know why ladies like putting problems in one”s neck sef.. abeg go rest  like say you no do am....am i the only one that enjoyed it.
6.They call for paternity test
In today’s world, many guys are not faithful to their so called girls because
promiscuity is the talk of the day. They know they are responsible for it
but will keep demanding a paternity test and will never drop a kobo for
it, which is smart on their part & not unreasonable.

7.They try to avoid her at all cost
Some will go as far as changing their phone numbers or restrict their
moment in order to avoid her. This is to signal to her that  she should
carry her cross.. 
8. They Tell Their Mom Not To Believe Her Claim
I have seen the case of a guy who impregnated his girlfriend and went
ahead to tell her mom never to believe her claim cos she wants to force
the pregnancy on her. The mother even resorted to harassing and calling
her slut and that she stay out of his son’s life in order not to push another
person’s pregnancy on her son.
9. They Drive Her Out Of Their House
Some become so aggressive that they order her out of their room
threatening to beat her if she dare mention that statement again.

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