LIES YOU SHOULD NEVER TELL TO YOUR PARTNER

People do lie from time to time feeling that lies are the easy way out in a relationship; with lies, they believe they can get away with anything.Though it might not sometimes necessarily mean big lies, for instance,, telling people that your fine whereas you are not is also a lie. But truth be told, lies are disrespectful to your partner and would kill the trust in your relationship. When you can’t tell your partner the truth then it shows that there’s something wrong with your relationship. 

Whether it’s a major lie to cover up what you did or it’s a little white lie, it’s unhealthy for your relationship and below are some of those lies you just shouldn’t tell.

1. LIE OF YOUR LOCATION

This is a common lie many couples tell without minding. Some partners lie about where they are going to or where they have been and this is unfair. You might call it a little white lie, but in all honesty, this is deceit and misleading someone you ought to gain their trust.

2. LIES OF HOW YOU FEEL

Some partners lie about their feelings . Telling a lie that you are sick to avoid being with your partner or going out with them is unfair; it’s better you tell the truth and let your partner know the real reason why you won’t oblige to their wish.

Secondly, the lie of claiming to be okay when you clearly aren’t. A lot of people tell this lie and it’s an unfair thing to do to your partner. You don’t expect your partner to be a mind reader and know what’s really wrong with you.

3. LIE OF BEING BUSY

Some people also tell their partner this cheap lie just to avoid being with them. So many people use this lie against their partners if they don’t want to do some tasks which they ought to. Your partner would feel used when he finds out that you weren’t really busy but you were trying to avoid a task.

4. FINANCIAL LIES

People tell their partners lies about their finances all the time. From how much they earn to certain expenses they procured and all manner of lies and tales about money. Money is a weighty subject and could cause big frictions when the truth finally comes out. When dealing with financial matters, try to be transparent and honest.

5. LIE OF WHOM YOU WERE WITH

Some people tell lies to their partner of whom they were with, so as to avoid misunderstanding. They lie about being with a male colleague when they were with a female, or lie about being with a friend when they aren’t. Such lies never do any good in the long run and are never healthy for your relationship.

6. I DON’T CARE

This is another common lie partners tell each other, probably during an argument.
Though one can reluctantly say this in an expense of argument.  This lie is disrespectful and would surely hurt your partner’s feelings; it should be avoided at all costs.

Lies may look like they provide an easy way out, but in reality, they don’t; they only plant seeds of disharmony, distrust, poor communication and other things that would only harm your relationship things.

7.I DON'T FEEL GOOD
Many a more( men and women) uses this source of media as an excuse not to go out with their spouse, stay with them, or even have sex with them.... They normally tag it ''Feeling Bad'' ...Though some people believe telling white lies isn't a bad thing. but lying to your partner about your health status isn't right and could automatically ruin the whom you (and your relationship) are because your partners do care about your health and well-being and you put them in a state of suspense when there is nothing to suspect.  so always be truthful and sincere about your health to your spouse.